When I am around :)

I dance I sing my favorite song,
I sweep the floor wearing a gown that’s long,

I love to love what God gave me,
& not afraid to confess envy some at times,

You may not like me but it doesn’t matter,
It’s not like without you my dream will shatter,

Though I commend you that you are so tough,
Coz If I am around its easy to fall in love,
Coz If I am around its easy to fall in love… :)

Forgive & Forget

There are times in life when we are stuck between our rational beliefs and cynicism which is quite normal as a human. We are born to learn from our mistakes all of us will have to make mistakes to learn hard lessons in life. This may sound a bit strange but many of us want themselves to be perfect and flawless though I haven’t come across any person in my life who might never have committed any mistakes in life.

We have been blessed with a quality of forgetting things including our and others mistakes but does forgetting things actually help or do you completely forget the mistakes committed by you or to you. I feel though a short term loss of memory of mistakes might help for a shorter period of time however if you wish to lead a life of normalcy and happiness and freedom you need to learn the art of forgiveness.

Forgiving is the most difficult virtue and comes with a high deal of immensity in thoughts. It takes loads of courage to waive off emotions that have hurt you and forgive people and yourself of the guilt of hurting someone at some point in life. Things which were taught at very early stages of life take their own sweet time for a brief realization in real life. As a kid we were taught to say sorry for our mistakes but with time we forgot the importance of it.

Forgiveness is the only value which holds merit of releasing you from your most painful grief, most pricking thoughts and most devastating situations. Learn to forgive and you will easily forget and start afresh.

Bas ek Sawaal

Puchna tha bas ek sawaal,

Kiya hai jisne kitno ko behaal,

Kyun itna emotional attyachaar,

Why such double standards yaar,

Kyun when guys call its just to be sure,

And when girl calls she acts amateur,

Jab Ladka Jovial toh perfect match,

And Ladki Jovial toh easy catch,

Jab Shaadi Ki Ho Baat toh ladka rakhe demand,

Aur Ladki bechaari bas khadi rahe shaant,

If a girl asks a question she wakes up with broken eyes,

And if guy does the same he is just concerned and nice

Ladki karey Adjust bcoz of pyaar,

Aur ladka haath uthaye woh uska adhikaar,

Its not that ye hai ghar ghar ki kahani,

Par ye toh sach hai ye hai baat purani,

So being a girl and with all due right,

I ask bhai bandhu tell me what is this fight..

Kab Badlegi ye soch hamari,

Aakhir Jisne Janam diya hai woh bhi hai ek naari

Lesson I learnt....

The Story Continues.............


On my way to office today in the hustle bustle of our very own local train. Two little kids caught my attention amidst the crowd of more than 100 passengers. The kids (a boy and a girl) were approximately 4 year old, the guy was quite mischievous and the girl fairly shy. The boy was trying to teach this girl alphabets and numeric and the girl of same age was trying to grasp it. I noticed a pattern with this boy, whenever he forgot few letters or numeric he started scolding the girl that she was not paying attention while trying to count on his fingers what the next letter is.

I noticed this few times and it buzzed me to my 1st message:-
DON'T REACT WHEN PEOPLE CRITICISE IT MAY BE POSSIBLE THAT THEY ARE JUST TRYING TO HIDE THEIR INEFFICIENCY/FAULT.

I found this interesting and I continued listening to their conversation the boy started to spell and pronounce a word on a sign board which spelt as "PAY" which he pronounced as "P-a-wai".
You may found it very stupid but this got me to my 2nd message:-

EVERY INDIVIDUAL IS UNIQUE AND HAS ITS OWN SPECIAL ESSENCE BUT WHILE YOU ARE IN A GROUP/TEAM, YOU NEED TO CONTRIBUTE YOURSELF IN A WAY THAT YOU BRING A NEW VALUE/MEANING TO IT WITHOUT LOOSING YOUR OWN IDENTITY.

This journey of 15 minutes with these unknown kids got me this 2 valuable lessons which I will try to remember and practice everyday.

My Friends :)

Sometimes I do things I never meant to do,
Sometimes I go with things that ain’t even true,
Sometimes I keep flirting while I should be grave,
Sometimes I cry around and I think it’s brave.

I feel I am a little mad,
And my friends agree,
But they never make me sad,
And never keep me free.

I love them one and I love them all,
They are my precious treasure,
And whether my heart is big or small,
I will keep them there with pleasure.