Forgive & Forget

There are times in life when we are stuck between our rational beliefs and cynicism which is quite normal as a human. We are born to learn from our mistakes all of us will have to make mistakes to learn hard lessons in life. This may sound a bit strange but many of us want themselves to be perfect and flawless though I haven’t come across any person in my life who might never have committed any mistakes in life.

We have been blessed with a quality of forgetting things including our and others mistakes but does forgetting things actually help or do you completely forget the mistakes committed by you or to you. I feel though a short term loss of memory of mistakes might help for a shorter period of time however if you wish to lead a life of normalcy and happiness and freedom you need to learn the art of forgiveness.

Forgiving is the most difficult virtue and comes with a high deal of immensity in thoughts. It takes loads of courage to waive off emotions that have hurt you and forgive people and yourself of the guilt of hurting someone at some point in life. Things which were taught at very early stages of life take their own sweet time for a brief realization in real life. As a kid we were taught to say sorry for our mistakes but with time we forgot the importance of it.

Forgiveness is the only value which holds merit of releasing you from your most painful grief, most pricking thoughts and most devastating situations. Learn to forgive and you will easily forget and start afresh.

Illegitimate dwellers in Society or rightful citizen “Women”

We girls would agree that we dread traveling in public transports like buses, visit public places without any company or just quietly wait for a friend in a lane. For most of the girls this is a fear we have been living with since our growing years.

Yes, we don’t feel safe the moment we leave our house we don’t want to be on a vacant lane, we can’t stand on road as the passing cars or bikes halt with an expression and yearning of a social or sexual encounter, We are afraid to travel in male’s compartment even though there might be less mass compared to ladies compartment as there is a chance of molestation. We are scared of travelling late night as people passing by think that she is broad minded look she is traveling so night so why not take a chance.

We suffer and have been suffering since ages in every public place as if we are not rightfully entitled to use it the same way as our opposite gender. The situation is even worse for girls below middle class they loose a chance of higher education, lucrative career mainly so because of the parents fright of letting them travelling in public places via public modes risking damage to their honor.


Why female is expected to remain careful, behave nicely as they might attract unwanted attention. Why can’t they be allowed a secure place in this society? Filthy messages at public places, shrewd comments while being out, raised eyebrows while hanging out with your male friends the list goes on and on. A male is allowed to just “hang out” while a female should always have a reason for that.

She is expected to be dressed appropriately or else should be ready for undue attention and comments. The harassment and insult continues everywhere. Very often a jolly and friendly girl is termed as an “easy catch” from her colleagues or batch mates.

These incidences cause equal damage as that of physical or sexual molestation. It is pity that after so many years of evolution of mankind one sex is still treated partially and even mistreated on many occasions. We beg your pardon dear brothers we need a life just as free as you after all I wasn’t designed to bear all the pain.

Proud to be an Emotional Fool

Many times I hear people calling me an emotional fool and I agree but is it wrong to be an emotional fool? Let’s find out. I am human and the only quality that sets me apart from a beast and most of the animals is my emotional intelligence which enables to me to reflect my feelings with exactly similar expressions. Now the point is many and most of us control ourselves while expressing and an emotional fool just fails to do that. To an extent it may be true that an emotional fool might easily be fooled around and can be taken advantage in every step of life by everybody.

But the fact is many a time emotional people don’t get fooled they just respect others emotion and allow the person to feel that they are been fooled. Emotional Fools always try seeking a positive reason in every negative incident in life. God has blessed them with beautiful heart which feels and does not hesitate in expressing it. It’s easy for them to forgive, it’s hard for them to forget, they will care for you even if you don’t, they will still speak with you after saying they don’t want to, they will still be helpful to people who at some point have hurt them.

They think a lot about petty things because they love things around them, love comes naturally to them; they hardly hate anyone or anything. It’s easy to say you are an emotional fool but I feel lucky to be one as I feel almost everything around me. I may not be best communicator but I definitely can feel the unsaid, can understand your smile, can read your eyes, can wipe your tears. You may not want to be around me when you are happy but you certainly won’t find a better company when you are sad.

A Noble Cause - Blood Donation

Its such a noble cause to help save someone's life. Not only does it holds importance in people's life who receive your help but trust me it will make a difference to you as well. It gives you a sense of fulfillment by returning something out of the lots the society and nature has given you. By now you almost know what I am talking about - Donate blood to save human and humanity. Most of us agree it is a great thing to do but not lot of us actually go ahead and implement what we say, Do we? Guess it's only when you feel for a cause you go ahead and do something about it. Imagine a known person, who needs you at such a critical hour What will you do? I am sure everyone out there will do what it takes to help him out. Lets do it then for humanity, I know there are many out there who believe in blood donation and they actually go out and do it. Speak to anyone of them and you will get to know the kind of happiness you achieve by doing such a minor thing. Lets join hands in doing the least you can do for society and take pledge to be healthy and donate blood once every 3 months.